the friend-zone

aha friend-zone,should be almost everyone's nightmare for once,the feeling that you get when you are friendzoned really sucks

*note that this thing go both ways,it might look like i am writing this only for the boys,i am not,its just because i am lazy to write he/she every single time*

let us begin,after being friendzoned, a person could completely develop different character for a set amount of time or in some cases permanently.according to what i see there are quite a few,i will try to list out some of them

No.1-the accepting reality type

these are the ones who get over the situation quite fast as they just accept reality and move on as soon as they are able to,but in some rare cases they do tend to hold grudges silently to the other party (not everyone is like this),mostly this type will maintain their close friendship with the other party though it might be a little awkward.




No.2-the HATER

these are the ones who can go totally from loving a person to hating a person till the end of END of the world (yea, the END of END of the world, it's that serious) after they get friendzoned,they tend to hate the other party and start thinking/talking/imagining bad things about them,they will make up whatsoever reason to hate the other party and and sometimes even unreasonable reasons,to put it in an easy way its just like how you hate your enemies.



No.3-the optimist

they are the rarest breeds who always think on the bright side after they get friendzoned ,they tend to move on very quickly as most of them will have 1 sentence on their mind "don't give up an entire forest just because of a tree".Most of them could still be close friends with the other party as they're very good in controlling themselves,though they are great at moving on,these are the ones who are likely to break the FRIENDZONE BARRIER because they are not the being misunderstood as annoying type,we will get to that later.


No.4-the being misunderstood as annoying type

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these are the most pitiful breed of all,these are the ones who find it hard to get over the situation and hence most of the time lost control of their emotion,they tend to try very hard to communicate more with the other party and in most cases end up annoying the other party,in some cases they will also constantly try to convince the other party to change their mind and give them a chance and end up annoying the other party too.


No.5-the jealous level maximum type

                                          

these are somewhat same like the HATER, they tend to get jealous very easily even when the person they like, speaks to the opposite sex normally as friends because they want to be the only one you talk to. they won't accept reality easily and will always tell you bad things about the person that you are talking to in order to get your attention and at the same time show you that they do care,the only problem is that they don't know how to put it in a better way but as time passes they would wake up and move on.


No.6-the paranoid/dramatic type

these are the ones who will over think things like "NOOOOO I AM GONNA DIE ALONE"/ "I CANT FIND ANYBODY LIKE YOU ANYMORE"/"I AM GONNA MARRY MY CATS AND BREED CAT WOMAN"/"I CANT LIVE WITHOUT YOU" and so on. They also tend to act very sad for example not talking to anyone for the whole day and so on but actually on the inside they are not that sad anyway(i am not saying that they are not sad,but seriously not until that kind of level like they are not able to meet the other party again),they too, want attention and care but they do not know how to express it in a proper way



No.7-the wannabe optimist

these are the ones who want to be an optimist but do not have a will strong enough to withstand the pressure of rejection, the wannabe optimist is a combination of the optimist and any of the above types,they will be fine during the first few days of rejection but in the end they will end up becoming any of the above type. they try the hardest to get over the situation but can't walk the whole path and end up receiving the most damage in the journey




so far this is all i know.FRIENDZONE is just a part of life that most of us have to overcome,there are many more people out there waiting for their Mr/Mrs RIGHT......there is always someone out there for everyone,so don't give up easily .

i will end this post with a picture that will twist your mind and eyes